Much has been written, sung, felt and debated about Love- a magnanimous feeling that encompasses this universe! It's the love of the God that this beautiful planet Earth has been created and the material world is run. Love is a feeling, a bonding force that transcends horizons and is present within and outside the realms of human body and soul. Love can be with species in case of same group or with objects or with different species. The one underlying characteristic that defines Love is that its unconditional, omnipotent and lasts forever.
I have also experienced love that has had an ever lasting impact on my life both w.r.t thinking and actions. You are in love when you think about something all the time and can't simply resist the temptation of being with your love all the time. Fear is developed of losing the love when it is not in hindsight. You start thinking about that love from deep within your heart instead of focussing on your own good. You are plagued, if so to say, by the thoughts of your love all the time and can't let it go easily.
If love is with an object, the love is reciprocated by the bonding with that object which is demonstrated and you can feel it easily. But, if the love is with a living entity, it's also important that the love is reciprocated similarly by the partner so as to establish a healthy relationship. This can happen instantly or over time depending on various factors as deemed necessary by both the individuals. Most of the times, if love is unconditional, this happens instantly or else the bonding generally develops over time.
As mentioned earlier, love should not be influenced by material riches lest it might not last a lifetime, which is not a healthy sign for the partners. It's critical then to evaluate yourself and the bond between the partners to make it even stronger by laying emphasis on the critical factors essential for maintaining the bond.
Nothing is achieved in life without sacrifices. Being in love is no exception. One has to be mentally prepared of the outcomes of pursuing the love. This is generally not an easy task as people falter along the path not ready to forgo something for attaining love. This is the true test of character and those who come out triumphs know the feeling of it.
1 comment:
I agree,when there is true love,there are no conditions.
Yeah ,a relationship can be strong enough in the beginning only or gradually it can even cross ’ heights of love’..As u said ,a healthy relationship depends on various factors.According to me,'únderstanding' is the most important factor or ingredient for a strong relationship.If there is understanding, there will be trust and consequently there will be strong love relationship.Then,in no conditions,that relationship will come down.But,if there is strong love but not much ' understanding and trust' that can be in danger at some moment of life because of a little misunderstanding.
I am also feeling that When we love somebody we just want to do things for their happiness.At that time your happiness is not in ,fulfilling your own wishes but instead of that fulfilling your love’s wishes.U just want to be with him all the time.Without his presence, everything seems to be incomplete.Just a lil’ ’Smile’ on his face makes you feel happy.
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